Recommended Reading
These are the books and thinkers that have most shaped Life Telling Processing — and that I return to, recommend to clients, and draw on in the work. This is not an exhaustive bibliography. It is a curated list of the works I trust most, organised by the territory they illuminate.
Trauma & the Body
These works form the neurobiological foundation of Life Telling Processing. They establish the central insight that trauma is not primarily a cognitive event — it is a somatic one. Healing requires that the nervous system itself have a new experience, not just a new thought.
The most important trauma text of the past three decades. Van der Kolk's central argument — that trauma reshapes the brain and body in ways that talk therapy alone cannot reach — is foundational to the somatic stabilisation phase of LTP. If you read one book from this list, read this one.
Find on Amazon ↗Levine's somatic experiencing model introduced the idea that trauma is stored as incomplete biological responses in the nervous system. His observation that animals in the wild do not develop chronic trauma because they complete the discharge cycle is a touchstone for understanding why integration requires more than insight.
Find on Amazon ↗Herman's foundational text on complex trauma remains essential reading. Her three-stage model of safety, remembrance and mourning, and reconnection maps closely onto the LTP protocol. Her insistence that trauma is a relational wound requiring a relational healing is central to this work.
Find on Amazon ↗A deeper and more clinical companion to Waking the Tiger. Levine explores the neurobiology of trauma responses and the role of the body's instinctual systems in healing. Particularly relevant to the Wild One and Warrior archetypal wounds.
Find on Amazon ↗Narrative, Neuroscience & Integration
Life Telling Processing is grounded in the neuroscience of narrative — the understanding that the way we tell our stories is not merely psychological but neurological. These works explore how the brain constructs, fragments, and integrates the self through story.
Siegel's concept of mindsight — the capacity to observe one's own mind — is one of the clearest articulations of what LTP is trying to cultivate. His work on the window of tolerance, interpersonal neurobiology, and narrative coherence is woven throughout this practice.
Find on Amazon ↗Siegel's more technical work on how early relational experiences shape neural architecture. Essential background for understanding why the archetypal wounds form in childhood and why they require relational healing in adulthood.
Find on Amazon ↗A highly accessible translation of Stephen Porges's polyvagal theory for clinical practice. Porges's insight that the nervous system is always scanning for safety — and that this scanning happens below the level of conscious awareness — is foundational to the somatic work in LTP.
Find on Amazon ↗Maté's most comprehensive work. His argument that much of what we call mental illness is a coherent adaptation to an incoherent environment reframes the entire therapeutic project. The compassion-based inquiry approach that shapes Phase Two of LTP draws on Maté's clinical philosophy.
Find on Amazon ↗Maté's earlier work on the relationship between emotional suppression and physical illness. Particularly relevant to the Nurturer and Sovereign archetypal wounds, where the cost of performing wellness is paid in the body.
Find on Amazon ↗Archetypal Psychology & Depth Work
The neuro-archetypal framework at the heart of LTP draws on the depth psychology tradition — the understanding that the psyche organises itself around universal patterns, and that healing requires engaging those patterns at the level of image, story, and symbol, not just cognition.
The work that introduced the concept of the wounded masculine archetypes to a popular audience. Bly's reading of the Iron John fairy tale as a map of male initiation and the recovery of the wild man is a direct ancestor of the neuro-archetypal framework used in LTP. Essential for understanding the Warrior, Wild One, and Uninitiated One wounds.
Find on Amazon ↗Campbell's comparative study of myth across hundreds of cultures identified the universal pattern of transformation: the call, the threshold, the ordeal, and the return. This pattern is the structural backbone of the LTP process and the reason the couragepath metaphor resonates across such different life stories.
Find on Amazon ↗A brief, precise, and deeply practical guide to Jungian shadow work. Johnson's argument that the unlived life accumulates in the shadow and eventually demands integration is foundational to the way LTP approaches the shadowlands. Accessible to readers with no prior background in depth psychology.
Find on Amazon ↗Johnson's exploration of the Lover archetype through the lens of the Tristan and Iseult myth. Particularly relevant to the Lover wound and the way romantic longing can become a substitute for genuine intimacy.
Find on Amazon ↗The foundational text on masculine archetypes in the Jungian tradition. Moore and Gillette's four-archetype framework is one of the direct ancestors of the eight-domain neuro-archetypal model used in LTP. Essential reading for understanding the Sovereign and Warrior wounds.
Find on Amazon ↗Contemplative Tradition & Meaning-Making
Life Telling Processing is not a secular modality. It draws on the contemplative wisdom of the Christian tradition — the understanding that the deepest human questions are not problems to be solved but mysteries to be inhabited. These works inform the spiritual dimension of the work.
Rohr's most accessible work on the spiritual arc of a human life. His argument that the second half of life requires a fundamentally different relationship to loss, failure, and the shadow is central to the way LTP approaches the Uninitiated One wound and the threshold-crossing work.
Find on Amazon ↗Palmer's exploration of the divided life — the gap between the inner life and the outer performance — is one of the clearest articulations of what brings high-achieving people to therapy. His concept of the soul as something that must be approached with gentleness and indirection resonates deeply with the LTP approach.
Find on Amazon ↗Merton's reflections on the false self and the true self remain among the most penetrating in the contemplative tradition. His description of the false self as a performance constructed to satisfy the expectations of others is a precise account of what LTP calls the Sovereign wound.
Find on Amazon ↗Frankl's account of finding meaning in the most extreme conditions of suffering is foundational to the narrative integration phase of LTP. His central insight — that meaning cannot be given, only discovered — is the reason LTP does not offer interpretations but instead creates the conditions in which the client's own meaning can emerge.
Find on Amazon ↗Nouwen's brief, luminous reflection on the relationship between the therapist's own wounds and their capacity to accompany others. The title is the origin of the Wounded Hero archetype in the LTP framework. Essential reading for anyone in a helping profession.
Find on Amazon ↗High Achievement, Identity & the Inner Life
These works speak directly to the experience of the high-achieving clients who find their way to Life Telling Processing — the particular loneliness of success, the cost of performance, and the deeper questions that surface when the outer life is in order but the inner life is not.
Peck's opening line — 'Life is difficult' — remains one of the most therapeutically useful sentences ever written. His integration of psychology and spirituality, and his insistence that genuine love requires the discipline of attending to the other's spiritual growth, shaped the relational philosophy of LTP.
Find on Amazon ↗Brown's research on shame and vulnerability is directly relevant to the Sovereign wound and the experience of high-achieving people who have learned to perform invulnerability. Her concept of wholehearted living maps closely onto what LTP calls narrative integration.
Find on Amazon ↗A more personal and accessible companion to Daring Greatly. Brown's ten guideposts for wholehearted living provide a practical framework for the integration work that follows the deeper excavation of LTP.
Find on Amazon ↗Though focused on addiction, Maté's central argument — that all addictive behaviour is an attempt to solve the problem of pain — is relevant to every high-achieving person who has used work, achievement, or control as a way of managing an unexamined inner life.
Find on Amazon ↗Podcasts & Video Interviews
Not everyone begins with a book. These conversations — in podcast and video form — cover the same territory as the reading list but in a more accessible register. I recommend them to clients who want to begin orienting to this work before a session, or who are processing something and want to hear a trusted voice speak to it directly.
Podcasts
The most consistently excellent long-form conversation on the intersection of spirituality, meaning, and the examined life. Episodes with Bessel van der Kolk, Richard Rohr, Parker Palmer, and Francis Weller are directly relevant to the work done in LTP. Begin with the van der Kolk episode: 'The Collapse of Meaning and the Birth of Community.'
Listen / Find ↗One of the most accessible introductions to Gabor Maté's work on the relationship between early wounding, emotional suppression, and physical illness. Maté's framing of 'not why the addiction, but why the pain' is a useful entry point for understanding the compassion-based dimension of LTP.
Listen / Find ↗Brown's research on shame resilience and the relationship between vulnerability and wholeness is foundational to the Narrative Integration phase of LTP. Her conversations with Bessel van der Kolk and with Tarana Burke on the body's role in shame are particularly worth your time.
Listen / Find ↗A clear and accessible conversation on Siegel's interpersonal neurobiology framework — how the brain integrates experience, how the window of tolerance shapes what we can hold, and what integration actually looks like in practice. Useful preparation for clients beginning the assessment.
Listen / Find ↗Rohr's conversation on the two halves of life and the necessity of the 'falling' that initiates the second half is among the most useful single conversations for clients navigating the liminal space between who they have been and who they are becoming.
Listen / Find ↗Video Interviews
A concise and compelling overview of van der Kolk's central argument: that trauma is not a story you tell about the past but a physiological state you are still living in. One of the most-shared introductions to somatic trauma theory, and a useful starting point for clients who are new to this framework.
Watch / Find ↗Maté's most accessible video introduction to the relationship between early emotional wounding and adult patterns of illness, addiction, and disconnection. His framing of 'normal' as a culturally constructed standard that is itself pathological is directly relevant to the high-achiever wound pattern.
Watch / Find ↗Rohr's distillation of the Falling Upward framework in video form. Particularly useful for clients in the liminal space of midlife transition, or for those who have achieved the first-half goals and are beginning to sense that something more is being asked of them.
Watch / Find ↗Siegel's Google Talk is one of the best single-sitting introductions to interpersonal neurobiology. He covers the window of tolerance, the wheel of awareness, and what integration means at the level of the brain — all of which are directly relevant to the LTP assessment and the neuro-archetypal framework.
Watch / Find ↗Archival interviews with Bly on the mythological dimensions of masculine wounding are among the most evocative introductions to the archetypal framework underlying LTP. His reading of the Iron John story — the wild man in the cage, the golden ball, the boy who must steal the key — illuminates the Uninitiated One and Wild One wounds in ways that clinical language cannot.
Watch / Find ↗This list will grow. I add to it as I encounter works that genuinely illuminate the territory — not because they are popular, but because they have proven useful in the room. If a book on this list has been part of your own journey and you want to talk about what it opened in you, bring it to a session. The best reading is always the reading that leads somewhere.
— Jon Holmes, MDiv., MA, LMFT
Reading opens the door. The work walks through it.
If something on this list has resonated — or if you are ready to begin the deeper work of gathering your own story — I invite you to reach out.