When the cost is becoming clearer
You may still be meeting demands while your relationships, rest, health, or sense of yourself have begun to carry the cost.
A place can make familiar expectations feel ordinary. The pressure to provide, perform, stay composed, or carry a private struggle alone can be easier to overlook when it has become part of daily life. Therapy offers a confidential place to slow down and understand what the pattern has been trying to protect.
You may still be meeting demands while your relationships, rest, health, or sense of yourself have begun to carry the cost.
Anger, shutdown, overwork, anxiety, or withdrawal can be more than a present-moment problem. They may be asking for the story beneath them.
The first conversation is not a commitment. It is a chance to consider fit, format, and the next honest step.
Yes. In-person appointments are available at the Fair Oaks office. The first conversation is a chance to discuss whether in-person or secure virtual sessions are the better fit for your circumstances.
Yes. Secure virtual therapy is available to clients who currently reside in California, including Granite Bay. You need a private setting and a reliable internet connection.
The standard session fee is $225 for a 50-minute session. This is a private-pay practice. Please review the Fees page for current details and policies.
A monthly superbill is available for clients who choose to submit to their insurer for possible out-of-network reimbursement. Coverage and reimbursement are determined by your insurer.
You can request a brief 15-minute consultation. It is a conversation about what is bringing you here, the practical format, and whether the work appears to be a fit. It is not a clinical intake and does not create an obligation.
Yes. Therapy can make room for the pressure, fatigue, and identity questions that can sit beneath a capable outer life. This page offers information, not a diagnosis.
Yes. Therapy can help you understand the pattern beneath irritability, defensiveness, shutdown, or reactions that feel larger than the moment, while taking their impact on others seriously.
Yes. Individual therapy can help you understand distance, shutdown, or the rupture around lost trust while respecting the other person's boundaries. It does not replace couples therapy when both people want and need that form of support.
Men's therapy in Granite Bay and the greater Sacramento region. Jon Holmes, LMFT offers in-person sessions in Fair Oaks and virtual therapy throughout Placer County for high-achieving men — physicians, attorneys, executives, and founders navigating burnout, trauma, identity, and relationships.
The practice is located at 7996 Old Winding Way, Suite 210, Fair Oaks, CA 95628 — a short drive from Granite Bay, Roseville, and Rocklin. Virtual sessions are available to any man who resides in California.
Granite Bay produces a particular kind of man. He has done well by most measures. He is a physician, an attorney, a senior executive, or a founder who has built something real. What brings him to therapy is the gap between the achievement and the feeling — the marriage that has become a business arrangement, the 3:00 AM wakefulness that no productivity system can touch.
Life Telling Processing is a contemplative-archetypal approach to men's therapy developed over twenty years of clinical practice. Rather than managing symptoms, LTP follows the story underneath the struggle.
Yes. In-person sessions are available at the Fair Oaks office. Virtual sessions are available throughout California. Contact the practice to schedule a free 15-minute consultation.
Jon Holmes, LMFT. California License MFC 45850. In-person: 7996 Old Winding Way, Suite 210, Fair Oaks, CA 95628. Phone: 916-534-8244.
If what you have read here resonates, I invite you to reach out. We will start with a brief 15-minute conversation.
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